Monday, August 17, 2015

BEHIND THE SCENE



There are so many things that happens in life that we are ignorant of. So many situations or occurences are not to be judged by their physical appearance,we must learn to look and observe beyond the actual scenero. Practically,youwould have observed that on many occassions some people display or engage in some acts that you find unbelievable or expect of them,there is something actually working behind the scene. Human is made up of body, spirit and soul. The body is just a container while the main man is the spirit that resides within. Everything a man does is firstly concealed within him before he puts it into action. Your outward apperance is a reflexion of your inward look. This is why when you speak to people with the view to correcting them,if they are not convinced within their spirit the will not change. The kind of spirit you possess determines the kind of character you will exhibit. The spirit that lives in a witch or a wizard is always of wickedness and distruction and that is what it will display. Some people do somethings at times and after doing it they "i didn't know how i did it,i am sorry" it was the spirit within them that took full hold of them. A lady or guy that cannot do without sex,its not her fault there is something behind the scene. Will a man kill ordinarily? But at that instance of killing he knows not what he is doing, this is why we on many occassions try to put up with some actions but find it difficult to,this is because there must be a transformation of inner man. What type of spirit or inner man do you carry? Is it of God or of the devil. The spirit of the devil comes with lust,killing,greed,selfishness,love of world pleasures,pride,sorcery,jealousy,anger,envy,drunkenness,hatred etc but the spirit of God comes with love,joy,peace,longsuffering,kindness,goodness,faithfulness,gentleness and self control, what greater thing should a man desire than this. Which of this two spirit works in you? Check their fruits and look at your life to know where you belong. The devil as nothing to offer but distruction and you can not go far with him. But in jesus is the certainty of the hope of glory.
PRAYER :- say "Jesus", i surrender my life to you and accept you died for me, i want you to transform me and give me your spirit, i want to start a new life and potray good character that will glorify you as my maker. In jesus name amen. IT IS WELL.

Friday, August 14, 2015

Top 6 Attributes You Must Poccess To Command Respect As a Student



Respect is one factor that speaks much louder than power in most cases. When you are well respected,be rest assured that you will command obidience. So many individuals live a loose life which expose them to lots of mess. When you are respected,people don't refer to you just anyhow,they will be very attentive at the instant of your cough because they hope to get informed and inspired through your speech. This is one major reason why first approach matters alot. Most people on their first appearance in a particular place,they lack the ability of calling theirself to order,so they talk anyhow,dress anyhow and so on without knowing they are laying an undisolvable bad foundation.
Some attributes that one must poccess to command respect include.
* Discipline in Speech :-
If you must command respect,you should learn to be a man of few words but sensible ones. When you talk too much,you tend to talk out of contest anywhere you are. Somepeople all in the name of being jovial has lost their respect. This is one major reason why you should be careful of giving comments,when you see people delibrating on matters,before you can contribute,think about what you want to say so that your speech won't subject you to redicle. In this same web,you must be careful when giving answers,it is not a must you give answers to all questions,majorly the one you know not because immediately they quote that wrong word of yours,it spread wide than the seas.
* Dress Conduct :-
I will start by confirming the statement that goes "the way you dress is the way you are addressed." The outward appearance of any individual matters alot. You don't have to block too many colours to look good or carry on crazy hair do. When you are always coporate in your dressing, people will be attracted to you and thereby make them respect you.
* Deligence :-
Also to command respect,you must be good at what you do. If you are a kind of person that does his work with intelligence and proffesionally,people will respect you compared to someone who takes things with levity hands.
* Comnunicative Ability :-
When you are outspoken,poccess good manner of approach and have good communication skills,people will respect you. This is when you are able to relate to people nicely and value words. When you can easily expess your feelings,peoplewill appriciate your intelect and want to associate themselves with you which brings respect.
* Decisional :-
If you must be respected for who you are, you must learn to take your stand on situations. You don't have to be everywhere or go into things out of peer pressure ,check it out, will it be of importance to you? If not then say "NO", when people notice this about you,they will be careful of the things they bring to your notice or offer you. This will command respect.
* A Man of Your Words :-
When no atom of truth can be found in your words,there is no way you can be respected. When you are fund of telling lies either in jokes or in truths,people tends to take you for an unserious type there by reducing your level of being respected.
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